“I’ve Got My CBT Tomorrow and I’m Bricking It”
September 23, 2025
By Claire JonesHere’s What You Need to Hear
You’ve booked your CBT.
You’re probably staring at your helmet, wondering what the hell you’ve signed up for.
You’ve watched the YouTube videos. You’ve read the forums. Everyone says it’s “just basic training.”
But your body is acting like you’re about to jump out of a plane.
Sound familiar?
Let’s get one thing straight:
Feeling nervous before your CBT doesn’t mean you’re not ready.
It means your brain cares about getting it right. And your nervous system is doing its job – keeping you safe.
But when that fear turns into overwhelm, second-guessing, or a full-blown “what if I’m not cut out for this” spiral…
That’s when you need support not more pressure.
So before you psych yourself out completely, here’s what I want you to know:
You’re Not Expected to Be Good Yet
The CBT is literally called Compulsory Basic Training.
Training.
Not a test. Not a pass/fail situation.
The goal isn’t perfection. It’s progress.
Your instructor is there to teach you, not judge you.
You’re allowed to stall.
You’re allowed to forget a mirror check.
You’re allowed to be new at this.
That “I Can’t Do This” Feeling? Totally Normal
When your body’s in a new environment doing something unfamiliar, it goes into survival mode.
You might freeze.
You might fumble.
You might forget which hand and foot does what.
That doesn’t mean you’re not cut out to ride.
It means your brain’s still catching up.
The only way through is… through.
One skill. One gear shift. One ride at a time.
If You Make a Mistake… Don’t Spiral
Yes, you might stall.
Yes, your U-turn might wobble.
Yes, your nerves might kick off the second you sit on the bike.
None of those mean “I’m not meant to ride.”
They just mean you’re learning.
If you mess up?
Reset. Don’t overthink it.
Say a grounding phrase to yourself:
“Shake it off. Next thing.”
“Breathe. Go again.”
“Still learning. That’s okay.”
Confidence isn’t about being flawless.
It’s about knowing how to come back after a wobble.
Riding Is Physical – But Confidence Is Emotional
Your instructor can teach you how to use the clutch.
They can help you handle a junction.
But the panic, overthinking, or pressure you feel?
That’s mindset work.
And most riders aren’t taught how to manage that.
So if you’re feeling on edge right now?
It’s not a personal weakness. It’s just that your nervous system needs a little support.
Your Pre-CBT Toolkit
Here are 3 things to help you walk in calmer tomorrow:
- Focus on what you’re learning, not how you look.
No one’s watching you thinking, “Wow, they’re stalling a lot.”
Everyone’s focused on their own stuff. You get to take the pressure off. - Breathe before each manoeuvre.
Exhale before you move. Slows the panic, calms the nerves. - Remind yourself: You’re not supposed to be confident YET.
That part comes after practice. Not before.
Bottom Line:
You are allowed to feel nervous.
You are allowed to be learning.
And you are absolutely allowed to show up anyway.
Whatever happens tomorrow, you’ll learn something.
And that’s a win.
You’ve got this.
One ride at a time.
Need more support?
This is exactly the kind of thing I help new and nervous riders work through.
Want a more supported mindset for your riding journey?
Come join my free Facebook group
Because riding isn’t just about skill.
It’s about belief.
Visit www.motorcyclemindset.co.uk for more
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Further Reading
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British Psychological Society – Sport and Performance Anxiety
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Sport Psychology Today – Managing Performance Anxiety in Sport
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Verywell Mind – Anxiety
Disclaimer
The content shared on this website and in related social media posts is not intended as riding advice and should never replace professional motorcycle training or safety instruction. It is written from the perspective of a certified life coach and motorcyclist, not a qualified riding instructor.
My aim is to support your mindset and emotional resilience as you learn, ride, or return to the road. The tools and reflections shared are based on lived experience and coaching practice, not technical riding expertise.
You are responsible for your own safety, decisions, and actions on and off the bike. For practical riding instruction and technique, always consult a DVSA-approved motorcycle instructor or school.
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Claire
About Claire Jones
Claire Jones of YourOneLife, is a multi-award-winning Life Coach, Mentor, Therapist, Speaker and Author of the best-selling book Remember You’re a Rider and the popular book How To Eat Less, both available on Amazon.
She helps people learn how to confidently manage their weight well for life, after successfully managing her own weight since 2011, following a 25 year yo-yo dieting battle.
With a career background of over 25 years spanning the NHS, HM Prison Service, and the UK Fire Service, she has seen first-hand what happens when people don’t look after their health, and has a natural desire to help and to serve those in need.
However, it was after overcoming decades of yo-yo dieting and learning how to look after her own health, that she found a particularly unique way to be of service.
She realised she had found an effective, unique and sustainable solution to the weight loss and regain cycles that so many go through, that cripples their confidence and holds them back from the lives they really want.
She is known for her relatable, down-to-earth manner and for helping her clients finally crack the code to their healthy weight and happiest selves.
She offers both standard and bespoke packages to work with her intensively on a one-to-one basis, as well as lower cost options to suit more limited budgets.
She also offers Mindset Coaching to people who are embarking on new ventures, including, but not limited to, motorcycle riding.
You can find out more about her services by clicking here.
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